Following Directions: Let's Make It A Game!

One of the biggest learning hurdles for children to master is learning how to follow directions. For parents, it can be a trying time. Trust me. I know how trying those early years can be, but if you take a deep breath, acknowledge that all children learn at a different pace, and in different ways, learning can be fun and maybe just little less stressful.

At what age do children learn how to follow directions? That all depends on the child. Read your child's ques. Take your time, go at your child's pace. Break it down. Right from the starting gate, you can ask your child, simple requests. Ask them, "Can I have the spoon?" and point to the spoon. Your child might not even know what you are asking. Slowly hold the spoon in their hand. You are not taking the spoon away, but you are showing them what the spoon is. Talking to them about it. This is teaching them speech, identifying items, and visual cues. 

Learning to follow directions takes time. Start small, and don't expect too much. Don't be surprised these in the beginning these requests will need to be repeated over and over.

1) Can you bring Mommy/Daddy the toy truck?
2) Can you put the tuck on the floor?
3) Can you bring Mommy/Daddy your blanket?

What do you do when a child has mastered the skill of completing a one step direction but can't complete a two or three-step direction? I've been there. I understand your frustration. This takes time and patience. Your child will get there. There is no finish line here. Let your child learn at their pace. Rushing them isn't going to do you or your child a world of good.   

So what do you do? Simple, take it a step back. Start from the beginning with a one-step direction. Then try two. Stick with the two-step direction for a while. Use visual cues, and show them what you want done. Many times I physically did the two-step direction with my son. Make it a game, like Simon says. 

What has been your experience? Share your ideas, tips, and tricks. I'd love to hear from you!
Cynthia

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